Written on Wednesday, April 15, 2009 at 12:27 AM
was visiting my crabby's blog when she mentioned :"...i need my "ziQing's territory" (crabby, i'm still loving that capital-Q sign that u designed for me 8 long years ago)..."I wish I could design, make, build, be-there for you my dear friend on the territory you need & require. Sometimes in life, especially for girls, we just need that sort of space. More than just a personal bubble, like a Comfort Zone for us to ease out relax junk & trash-talk. I miss those days, when I had my 'territory'... I miss my girlfriends, on trash-talks... Not saying that any of the days I'm having now is not as good, just that I miss my territory too.
2 is a company, 3 is a crowd;
4 would be easy if only girlfriends are allowed.
Never easy to be living with 3rdParties. Sometimes 2Parties may pose as a hurdle too, however rectifiable. Crabby, I suppose I can never fully understand your feelings of being 'alien' in the house yet not quite a home. But I sure can comprehend the relativity of such matters... Everything takes time to grow & adapt to, occasionally mental-checks happen in order for us to keep track of our work-in-progress. How much effort is put in, How far we've gone, How much we've done/sacrifice. Nonetheless, I wish you my dear friend all the best! Don't blame yourself too much, cause it takes 2 hands to clap; 2 persons to dance. Love ya...